I’m good at Google-fu, and I learned in therapy to handle uncertainty by just picking a method and going for it after X amount of time instead of putting it off forever out of fear.
I feel like these skills make me seem way more intelligent and confident than I actually am.
Like… 90% of my “knowledge” comes from the first page of Google. I don’t think any of my peers understand how seat-of-the-pants my choices are. My decisions might be better than doing nothing, but that doesn’t mean they’re GOOD decisions!
But, we haven’t died yet. Sometimes the most vital thing really is just to get started, even if it’s a snap decision by a flighty, ADHD-ridden mess who has questionable common sense. Things will work out, but only if you get them going in the first place!